Comments on: Does my son have any serious issue under all of this problem? http://www.longbeachfitnessexpert.com/long-beach-fitness/does-my-son-have-any-serious-issue-under-all-of-this-problem Get In Shape Today! Wed, 18 Aug 2010 13:33:59 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Bexcy http://www.longbeachfitnessexpert.com/long-beach-fitness/does-my-son-have-any-serious-issue-under-all-of-this-problem/comment-page-1#comment-255 Bexcy Mon, 15 Feb 2010 13:38:59 +0000 http://www.longbeachfitnessexpert.com/long-beach-fitness/does-my-son-have-any-serious-issue-under-all-of-this-problem#comment-255 I would be very concerned. Not so much about his friends because that really isn't the most alarming part of your story. What concerns me is his reckless behavior with his well being. But 17 year olds do some very daring (and sometimes stupid) things because they see themselves as durable and indestructible. But meeting with strangers, lying, thrill seeking or fighting would be concerning. I would definitely start getting more involved with him and asking him to bring his friends around. His friends may have weird hair but meet them and see who they are and how they treat your son, then make the judgment. You need to start getting involved. Having a computer program and watching from afar won't be interactive enough. Does he have a curfew? Do you do things together? Make dinner together? These are key times when you get to ask your kids pertinent information. Get involved, ask questions. You have to show him the parent(s) are/is here, in charge and care. Be interested. He might possibly need some counseling. I would have him postpone his Army tour and direct him towards college. Go slow and don't lose your temper. The minute you start getting angry they stop listening. I wish you patience, tolerance and the best.<br><b>References : </b><br> I would be very concerned. Not so much about his friends because that really isn’t the most alarming part of your story. What concerns me is his reckless behavior with his well being. But 17 year olds do some very daring (and sometimes stupid) things because they see themselves as durable and indestructible. But meeting with strangers, lying, thrill seeking or fighting would be concerning.

I would definitely start getting more involved with him and asking him to bring his friends around. His friends may have weird hair but meet them and see who they are and how they treat your son, then make the judgment.
You need to start getting involved. Having a computer program and watching from afar won’t be interactive enough. Does he have a curfew? Do you do things together? Make dinner together? These are key times when you get to ask your kids pertinent information. Get involved, ask questions. You have to show him the parent(s) are/is here, in charge and care. Be interested. He might possibly need some counseling.

I would have him postpone his Army tour and direct him towards college. Go slow and don’t lose your temper. The minute you start getting angry they stop listening.

I wish you patience, tolerance and the best.
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]]> By: Brittany b http://www.longbeachfitnessexpert.com/long-beach-fitness/does-my-son-have-any-serious-issue-under-all-of-this-problem/comment-page-1#comment-254 Brittany b Mon, 15 Feb 2010 12:58:59 +0000 http://www.longbeachfitnessexpert.com/long-beach-fitness/does-my-son-have-any-serious-issue-under-all-of-this-problem#comment-254 nevermind, choose the person underme<br><b>References : </b><br> nevermind, choose the person underme
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]]> By: Whittney http://www.longbeachfitnessexpert.com/long-beach-fitness/does-my-son-have-any-serious-issue-under-all-of-this-problem/comment-page-1#comment-253 Whittney Mon, 15 Feb 2010 12:46:59 +0000 http://www.longbeachfitnessexpert.com/long-beach-fitness/does-my-son-have-any-serious-issue-under-all-of-this-problem#comment-253 you son just sounds like he is living his live with all of the dangerous stuff but with the affectations with blood, that's different....<br><b>References : </b><br> you son just sounds like he is living his live with all of the dangerous stuff but with the affectations with blood, that’s different….
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